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11 months ago
I have tips for that anon, and they're from a guy who loves giving blowjobs so they're extra super helpful 8D
The best piece of advice I have would be to have fun and experiment, but if your boyfriend/partner looks uncomfortable or like he's just not enjoying it in anyway (ie. uncomfortable, bored, in pain, etc) then by all means, stop and don't do it again unless he asks you to or says he likes it.
Also, use your tongue. The most sensitive parts of the penis go crazy with stimulation from the tongue. So don't just go up and down with your mouth. Use your tongue, swirl it around the head, and use your hand to stimulate the areas of the shaft that you can't reach with your mouth (even if you CAN fit it all the way in, you should still use your hand). The frenulum is also an extremely sensitive part of the penis, and is the bit of skin on the bottom side of the penis that connects the head to the shaft in men who are circumcised, and the head to the foreskin in men who aren't. So that's another great area to use your tongue on.
If your man isn't circumcised, be a little extra careful not to hurt him. The foreskin is really, really sensitive in some guys, and sometimes it's stretched so tightly over their head that it can be really uncomfortable to go too fast or too hard. Just make sure that he's comfortable with what you're doing, and it should be fun for the both of you.
Yeah, much better worded than I could’ve put together. Thanks, Cory. That’s helpful.
Anon, there’s this information as well! Hopefully you feel a bit more confident now. Really, you just got to go for it and see what works for the two of you. You’ll find a groove. =]
11 months ago • 2 notes
Fellatio II - Advanced
Take a few minutes to read Fellatio Basics and then come back here to fine-tune your approach. Ok … so now that you have gathered a good understanding of the basics, here are some more advanced lessons that are sure to knock his socks off!
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11 months ago • 1 notes
Fellatio I - Basics
Fellatio is oral sex performed on a man. It is a great way to give pleasure; regardless of whether it is for foreplay, after play, or the main event. Like all other sexual skills, they must be learned, so communication is highly recommended. Whether the communication is before, during, or after, it is essential to learn the art. Finding out what he likes will invariably go a long way towards performing mind-blowing oral sex.
Before reading further, you may want to get acquainted with this region of his body by reading the His Erogenous Zones section and having a look at the Male Diagram.
Keep in mind, when you are performing oral sex, you are doing this for him. Sending negative vibes about not wanting to or how much of a chore it is will take away from his experience. If you act enthusiastic, chances are it will be over faster, and it will be your turn to receive. If you are really against performing fellatio, explain to your partner why you don’t, and don’t allow him to force you if you are uncomfortable.
Cleanliness is essential with virtually all forms of sexual play; particularly in oral sex where a bad taste or smell will undoubtedly dampen enthusiasm on the part of the giver. A bath or shower is a great primer, and can be the start of the festivities. If you are uncomfortable with a particular smell that your partner may have, suggest taking a shower with you, because you’ve had a busy day and don’t feel clean. You don’t want to point out the smell (unless it is a very common occurrence and can be prevented), as that will only lead to anxieties and take away from the overall experience.
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11 months ago
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I remember you writing something about your boyfriend saying you're good at giving blowjobs... and... ehm... could you maybe say what you do? I have a boyfriend, and I wanna be good for him, you know... is this too much to ask of you? I'm sorry if it is :-/I really… hm, well, what has worked for me is, quite frankly, watching porn and reading fanfitction. We’re also very conversational about things because we’ve been together for four years so we’re comfortable together.
Basically, just relax. It’s not meant to be such a huge, stressful thing. If he’s making it out to be then he doesn’t deserve the awesome blowjob anyway, in my opinion.
It’ll be rocky starting out, I’m not going to lie to you. It’s awkward and embarrassing the first couple of times if you’ve never done it before but if you work together, figure out what he likes and what you’re able to accomplish and what YOU are comfortable with as well then it should work out. You just have to… practice.
I’ll post some tips and things in a couple of minutes as well. Some things to consider, things like that. Thanks for the awesome question!
11 months ago • 7 notes
Hey guys!
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I have a ton of things going on in my life at the moment with my son and some other things so I’ve been rather AWOL the past couple of days. Don’t worry, when things settle back down again I’ll be back. In the meantime, please don’t forget about me and try not to miss me too much. I miss y’all already and I’ll be back as soon as possible! <3
11 months ago
Hey guys and gals!
I got caught up in the Fourth of July festivities but I’ll be back in full swing come Tuesday AKA tomorrow. In the meantime, if there’s anything you’d like to ask, get off your chest or topics you want to see here don’t hesitate to drop me a message in my ask. Anon is always on so don’t be shy and have fun for the Fourth!
11 months ago
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This is coming from someone who's fairly inexperienced and still a virgin, but has always been interested in sex itself. Anyways, this is probably an age old question that doesn't really have one answer. How do you know when you've found the one you want to lose your virginity to or when do you know you want to have sex for the first time and you feel you won't have regrets about it in the morning? I'm just looking for some advice. :)Sorry this took so long to get back to you on, but I’m not exactly sure how to answer this one. All I can offer is a motherly/sisterly kind of advice so this isn’t a how-to or guidelines to stick with.
First of all, I don’t know how old you are but I stress that you’ve at least graduated high school. Sex complicates things whether we want or intend it to and I can’t stress that enough. It was the mistake I made and I wouldn’t want you to do the same.
I also feel that if you’re questioning it then chances are you’re not ready. I only say that because the way you’ve worded your question makes me think there might be someone you’re thinking about being with though you’re not sure and if you’re second guessing yourself like that I’d wait.
Second, if you’re in an established relationship, that’s always a good thing. Sex without the deeper connection is… well, sex is better and you’re more likely not to regret it if you’re with this other person for a while.
Also, if there’s any pressure from the other end to have sex then hold off. Talk about it first and express your concerns and thoughts. Communication is key with things like this and helps break down the walls that make things awkward and you should never have to guess what your partner is thinking.
Finally, I want you to get inside your own head and ask if you’re doing this for yourself or the other person. If it’s not for you then I advise you wait. It’s not something you can get back, you know?
In conclusion, just be true to yourself and follow your heart. Your gut is your best friend in any given situation so just go with your gut and see what it tells you.
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